Friday, June 10, 2011

Harmless fairytale...or EVIL GAY PORN!!


Over the past several months I have gotten quite a few questions regarding the children's book King and King, which I mentioned on my Equality 101 page.  Some are wondering what it's all about, or if it's "a threat."

My reply:  Yes actually, it is a threat.  It's a threat to bigotry and homophobia.

One rather upset email commenter said "This is nothing more than gay porn propaganda for kids!"  Interesting, considering it is neither pornographic nor propagandist.  It's a fricking fairytale, people.

This is a brief rundown of the book which, along with other books like it, can be found in elementary schools in my country.  You decide if it's evil or not.





It is a classic-style, illustrated fairy tale, wherein a queen who is ready to retire is nagging her son (crown prince Bertie) to get married.  "Very well mother," he says, "I must say, though, I've never cared very much for princesses."







 
The queen searches the world over for a suitable bride, but none of the eligible bachelorettes peek any interest in the prince, until princess Medeleine arrives.  The prince is immediately smitten...by her brother, prince Lee.  It is, as the book describes, love at first sight.








After a courtship, the two princes get married in the royal palace and join their lives together, becoming King and King.






So there you have it.  A simple children's book that obviously isn't the end of the world, and certainly isn't pornographic.  If this simple and inclusive fairy tale is "gay porn propaganda for kids," then Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, and Rapunzel are straight porn propaganda for kids.  Please tell me we're more mature than that as a species. 

King and King is a great book with a wonderful story about diversity and acceptance which can help to dispel some of the ignorance surrounding same-sex relationships.  It is a sweet story which is tastefully written and illustrated, and its message that love transcends gender makes this book a must-have for our time.  You might have a problem with it, however, if you're afraid of letting your child think.

The kids in my family all have a copy of this book, and their teachers have also read it with their classes at school in Norway (though, sadly, I highly doubt it will be read in Philippine schools anytime soon).  In short, it's a highly-recommended book with a great message.


And the book ends in classic fairy tale fashion:
"...they lived happily every after."


Another great new book is ''The Dream Prince,''  by Justyna Nyka.  It starts like many fairy tales do:  Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess who went out into the world to search for her dream prince.  She searches high and low in country after country -- in desperation even trying to make a prince out of cookie dough -- but no prince wins her heart.  Her parents, the king and queen, find out that the world is full of surprises when their daughter returns home from her journey not with a dream prince, but rather with a dream princess.

The moral of the story is summed up by the king who, in the end, says:  ''We were searching for one thing and found another - and it's just as good!''  It's a great message of tolerance and love, and lets kids know that not every princess is looking for a prince.

There are also some other great pro-equality children's books out there today, including "It's Okay to be Different", "Uncle Bobby's Wedding", "All Families Are Special", "Mommy, Mama, and Me", and "Daddy, Papa, and Me," all of which can be ordered online from your European, North American, or Australian bookstore of choice.  Many offer international shipping to points in Asia.

In addition to same-sex inclusive fairy tales, there are also revamped traditional fairy tales being read in schools throughout Europe these days.  Most of us are so used to hearing how it's always the brave prince who saves the helpless princess, they kiss and fall in love, and then the princess lives out her life quietly raising babies and perfecting her royal wave.  But come on, it's not the middle ages anymore!

''That's What a Princess Does'' is a great Swedish children's book about a brave and cool princess who wears a sword, fights robbers and dragons, and keeps her kingdom safe from harm -- all on her own.

The author, Per Gustavsson, has come out with a series of the princess's adventures, and they've become quite a hit in Scandinavia.  Instead of the princess waiting to be rescued by a prince, she goes and rescues the prince who is in danger!  Instead of a strong, brave prince saving the day, it's a strong, brave princess who saves the day, and I think it's great!

Along this same vein are the books "Princess to the Rescue!" and "The Paper Bag Princess" where princesses rescue princes from dragons and ogres, not by using their charms but by using their skill, strength, and intelligence.

Face reality, people.  Sometimes princes marry princes.  Sometimes a princess' "prince charming" turns out to be a "princess charming," and sometimes princesses kick ass, rescue the prince, and save the kingdom.  If that makes you nervous, well, take a Xanax.  It ain't 1950 anymore.

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6 comments:

Mamasita said... Best Blogger Tips

No it is not pornographic but I question if this is good for school children. I do not doubt that homosexuality or transgender is naturally occuring in humans, but this kind of smells like indoctrination. I don't think children can properly understand this, though maybe in Europe. It also can provoke many parents who may not agree with homosexual lifestyle.

KyleXY said... Best Blogger Tips

For me I think it's a good idea! There are sooooo many fairy tales that are all hetero, so what would it hurt to have a few that are showing tolerance for everyone!

Erwin Guinto said... Best Blogger Tips

I can tell you one thing for sure, if the school my sons go to would start teaching this book and reading it, I would pull them out of that school. It will be a cold day in hell before I will teach my kids that being gay is normal, because it is NOT! I would never send my kids to a school where there is a risk he would come home as a gay. Those of you out there who support this type of thing have really sunk low.

Jack said... Best Blogger Tips

Erwin u're a H-O-M-O-P-H-O-B-E !

Jayson Rdgz said... Best Blogger Tips

Um, so do you think that being gay is something someone "catches" by hearing a fairy tale about two princes who fall in love? Are you that backward?? It isnt complicated to discuss with kids when reading a book like this, explaining that most people fall in love with someone of the opposite sex, but there are some people who fall in love with a person of the same sex. It is what it is. Little kids dont make a huge event out of it. That happens when hysterical adults like you, full of fear and prejudices, step in and make it into a giant dangerous taboo. The kids dont do that, it's the closed minded adults!

You know what would be really sad? If one of your sons actually does turn out to be gay. You're trying to avoid homosexuality (which is a natural sexual orientation by the way) and act like it doesnt exist and put prejudices in your children's minds. Then who could your son turn to? Not his father who clearly would scorn him or reject him. He'd be alone with painful thoughts when these "forbidden" feelings start to come in puberty. Then we could only pray that he wouldnt end up feeling that the pressure is too heavy to carry all alone, and become one of the statistics of gay adolescents who kill themselves in despair

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

I guess some people would rather their children read about a queen eating her stepdaughter's innards or a child fattened up for an old crone's meal than a woman fall in love with a woman or a man with a man. Good on you, morally sound parents!

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